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April letter

Dear everyone,
Earlier this week. It was my privilege to take Holy Communion at two residential dementia care homes. We had been unable to take the service due to various members of the small team, including myself, needing hospital care. The last time we went was ten months ago
After such a long absence. I felt quite nervous as to how everything would go; but, apart from two minor hitches, all went well, and we all felt elated.
Because of our long absence I must admit that I had been wondering whether we should give up this kind of Ministry, but the very fact of being there assured us that it was the right thing to carry on, and the residents who took part appreciated our visit.
However it raises the question. ‘When should we give up doing things?’ Scripture says, ‘never grow tired of doing good.’ In other words, as long as we have cognitive skills to do things for others and with others, we should. Our ‘old friend’ John Wesley says ‘do all the good you can… As long as ever you can.’
We may need to take more time to get things done as we get older. (and even when we are not so old!), but perseverance is a quality we should never neglect and cultivate at all times.
May the message of Easter inspire us to find new life, perseverance, and inspiration in all things that we do.
Every blessing,
David.

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March letter

Dear everyone.
Ash Wednesday, yesterday, the beginning of Lent, was a significant day for me in an unexpected way. My home had a spring clean.’ I do have some excellent help for a few hours on a fortnightly basis for many household chores, and this helps me along tremendously, but living on my own for the last three years has led to some areas of significant neglect on my part, and it’s good to see the whole house looking in pristine condition.
In some ways, Lent, is a bit like a spring clean. It is a time of year when we should set about doing some ‘tidying up’ in our lives, getting rid of excess baggage that has collected over the years in our lives, a sort of ‘pruning down’ process in order to help us live more wisely, efficiently and fruitfully.
There is a value in having some concrete objectives during Lent-some actual things that we do to improve our lifestyle in the best sense of the word. Giving up sweets, alcohol, smoking, rich fatty foods, even fasting may well help us to live much healthier, even longer lives; but there is always a much more fundamental question that we have to consider as Jesus did: what are we living for?
Basically from a Christian point of view, we are called upon to ‘to love the Lord our God’ in every aspect of our lives, and to ‘love our neighbours as ourselves.’
In other words, for all of us, whatever our outlook may be, we should be living for some worthwhile purpose. Our responses may be very different, but Lent presents a challenge to all.
May we make a good ‘spring clean’ in our lives at this time of the year, making sure that we do those things that matter most, this might include all kinds of unexpected things!
Every blessing,
David

For Lent thoughts on ‘What are we living for?’ visit https://davidmonkton.wordpress.com/lent17/

February letter

Dear everyone
This week my central heating has not being working. Try as I may, I find the instructions difficult to follow. I await a visit from the gas engineer to explain things to me.
Technology often demands instant attention, and our own priorities get pushed on one side. Sometimes in computing we can achieve a lot very quickly, but it rarely leaves us without some new problems to face and new procedures to follow. If we fail to grasp the meaning of some important phrase in the instructions, we may find ourselves spending hours trying to do a simple task.
In the world, too there is always change. We feel great dangers in it at the present time because of movements and organisations with ruthless intentions. Issues of justice and tolerance call for our urgent attention and prayers. May the day quickly come when we can sail into calmer waters!
How do we stay calm when so many things are sent to try us? Do we feel harassed in our personal circumstances, or troubled by what is going on in the world?
A well-known prayer written by the theologian Reinhold Niebuhr reads.
‘God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.’

However, even in the things that we cannot change personally, we must be willing to speak out in support of those who can.

With all good wishes,
Yours sincerely,
David.

PS. The gas engineer did come, and a personal explanation has made all the difference. It’s now working fine!

January letter

Dear everyone.
By nature, I tend to be an optimist, but there are sometimes when we all wonder how things are really going. My weeks leading up to Christmas were a bit like that. Two days before Christmas Day I had to go for my check-up after my op’. The consultant was pleased to report that it had been completely successful, and that I was now able to drive again. All this news was a really good Christmas present!
When we are going through difficult days, many people remind us that attitudes of mind can have a great effect on how we feel. They will remind us of the need to get out and relate to people, to keep our interests going, accept any opportunities that come our way, and avoid situations where we may be tempted to brood on our own.
‘Be positive,’ is the advice given. And it’s good advice; but it does it go far enough? Being positive, requires that we do positive things, and not just think about them!
It is right that we should not habitually make rash and rushed decisions; but procrastination needs to be avoided too. We cannot stand idly by. Jesus says. ‘Seek and you will find, knock and the door will be opened.’ I believe that he meant this in a very practical way, as well as what you might describe as a ‘spiritual’ one. Whatever situation we are in, we should always be gently and even prayerfully exploring-seeking out information and support that will help us on our way, and in the process, help others as well. In this way, we will serve God in his world, our neighbours, and the whole of humanity in its wider needs.
Can I suggest that we adopt a simple motto for the New Year-‘Seek, and you will find.?’
We may not always find exactly that we think we want, but we may well find something better than we anticipated as we explore life, and its meaning, which brings about peace and contentment, positive about the situations that we face, and help others in their decision-making too..
With these thoughts in mind-I would like to wish you-
Every good wish for a very happy New Year.
Sincerely,
David
PS.Thanks too for all messages, cards and prayer support. It has been greatly appreciated.

Christmas letter 2016

Dear Everyone,
I hope that the last year has gone well for you. It has certainly had plenty of variety in it from my point of view!
In January, there was a rights-of-way dispute with a property owner who had extended his fencing to include land which had been considered by local people for a long period to have public rights of way. As someone who used this path everyday to get my newspaper, I attended rather reluctantly, a public enquiry where I found myself a key witness into its public use. Our appeal was successful.
Early in the summer, I was involved in my role as chaplain to the city division, Nottinghamshire police, in the closure of the old central police station-a large building of ‘art deco’ style. In its day,it has been a prestigious building, with a large Command suite. It was unique for all kinds of reasons. Nottingham city police were the first force in the country to have radio telephones in their police cars.In pre-war police days men and men only were recruited who were over six foot tall into the force. Even today there are still many retired officers around, who are unusually tall-noticeable particularly at retired police officer’s funerals! How much however policing has changed in recent years, and the new police station inside is an extremely attractive, efficiently heated, and ‘well-planned- out’ building.(see http://www.nottinghampost.com/8216-memories-nottingham-central-police-station/story-28835995-detail/story.html )
Simon and I had a great holiday in Spain in Andalusia visiting Seville, Cordoba, and many other places like the Alhambra and Alcatraz. The architecture was fascinating, and I couldn’t help thinking how much Pauline would have enjoyed this visit, with its Moorish history, bits about Isabella of Spain, Christopher Columbus, and all the wonderful gardens, and I know how much Pauline was in the back of our minds, as we went down to Anna and Jeff’s a few days later to celebrate Anna’s fiftieth birthday. We Also celebrated one of Berwyn’s ‘lesser significant’ birthdays at the same time- and for our main meal a Chinese takeaway. (By special requests from the grandchildren, but enjoyed by all.) And a birthday cake made by Elizabeth.
On the church front, we have a new minister who is settling in very well . His name is The Revd. Moses Agyam, together with his wife, Diana, and their young daughter Philothea. He has lived in this country since he was 16, and the family are making themselves very much at home with us all.
At the end of November, I had to go into hospital to have a small growth removed from my right lung , this was successfully done by keyhole surgery. I seem to be making good progress but I shall have to be taking things quite slowly for the next few weeks and months. This applies especially to visiting three dementia care homes- we’ve had to curtail quite a bit of what we’re doing for the time being. It has also meant the curtailing of many things that for me are all part of Christmas !
Simon, Anna and Jeff, and Elizabeth and Berwyn are getting on fine. They have all been extremely supportive during the last few weeks-and the grandchildren Osian, Elin and Iwan are all continuing to explore many sports and new activities. Just now, Iwan is now in the exams stage.
I would like to wish you all:

A Happy Christmas, and a peaceful New Year,
David

December letter.

Dear everyone

This time last year, little did I expect that I would find myself just coming out of hospital after an operation. Fortunately all seems to have gone well, it’s surprising what can be done with keyhole surgery!

The first thing that has hit me, has been the way medical teams carry out their extremely skilled tasks.

The work of the surgeons and doctors is central, but a whole team of people are necessary for success. The anaesthetists, the clerks who take great care in recording details, administrators, nursing teams, the assistants who weigh you, take your temperature, your pulse rate, and give the tablets you need, physio and speech therapists, dietitians, those who clean, dust and make beds, chaplains, volunteers who serve drinks, sell papers direct visitors, Hospital visitors, relations and friends. All these roles and many others equally worthy of mention have real purpose. There are many who find great satisfaction and happiness in reaching out towards healing and wholeness for others.

Many today feel we are living in a sick world, and we all need to be sharing in a healing work that needs be done. Although our National Health Service is going through difficult days our hospitals provide inspiring models of how human beings should be working together in the world. Teamwork is needed everywhere where all kinds of people are genuinely valued.

As the Christmas season of goodwill approaches, team work for the common good needs to be embraced globally. May we all be willing to accept it.

With all good wishes and every blessing,

David

November letter

Dear everyone.
A book that I enjoyed reading earlier in my retirement studies, is titled ‘From ageing to Sage-ing.’ It is written by a Jewish rabbi, Zalman Schachter-Shalomi, and in it he ‘gives ways to use our life experiences to nurture, heal, and perhaps save both the younger generation and this world.’
This ambitious book reminds us that in many former generations and civilisations, older people were valued for the wisdom that they could teach to the young. At the present time, there have been such rapid advances in science, technology, and particularly communication, that many older people feel that they have lost their role in society, and we need to recover ways of listening to what older people have to say.
This could be true, but one thing is certain: when older people start laying down the law as to how younger people should act, they are not listened to, and it soon becomes obvious that they have a lot to learn about present-day life themselves!
Last Christmas, my family bought me a ‘tablet’. It’s really great at sending and taking photographs, watching programmes on television that I’ve missed, and sending messages by email and such things as twitter: but there is one snag for many older people.If you have a problem in using it, who is going to help you to sort it out? It is more than likely to be a youngster who has been brought up in the computing age.
Scripture tells us that even ‘out of the mouths of babes’ as it were, wisdom and ‘know how.’ can come. Jesus himself recognised that children have very significant place in providing examples for older people of good living.
May all of us learn to be good ‘sages’, by remembering that we all have to continue learning-even and perhaps especially, from those much younger than ourselves.
All good wishes and,

Every blessing,David.